I really enjoyed the AW Intimate Moments in the past - much real masturbation to many real and visible orgasms - but joy has become more and more rare now - by all those insertions... 99.9% of women achieve masturbation orgasm by clitoral stimulation as we know. Although the male public prefers to watch insertions for understandable reasons - I am sorry, 99.9% clitoral stimulation. We had so many nice orgasms in the AW history. Now all those insertion orgasms are staged. You can see tons of that stuff on any free page. I hope AW will climb up to old quality again.
I'm sure models and female staffers will respond to this soonish, but I couldn't resist
Originally Posted by neugierig
99.9% of women achieve masturbation orgasm by clitoral stimulation as we know.
'we' know this? How ?
Originally Posted by neugierig
We had so many nice orgasms in the AW history. Now all those insertion orgasms are staged
I get you prefer to watch IM's without insertion, but don't quite follow how you conclude all the orgasms you don't like are staged? It's quite a claim and not needed. Why do people feel the need to defend their taste/what they like? It is much easier to just state you prefer not-insertion IM's over most of the current ones. That is fine. Any such grand claims won't help getting your point across either.
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I will add one little comment.... My understanding is that in IM's the model is in a room with a camera to do whatever she would normally do during her "private" time at home. So if it appears that there are more "insertion" orgasms than previously (which I'm not convinced there is) then maybe it's that it's just more of the current models prefer it that way.
Not only do we leave our models alone in a room and ask them to do what they would normally do at home but we spend the time to find out EXACTLY how they do it at home by asking them several questions before the shoot is even booked. We then use that information to ensure we put them in a part of the house that fits with how they naturally do it we make sure they have any props they might need (I for example have spent the last 5 months or so masturbating in the shower using a razor internally while stimulating my clitoris I find it gives me a deeper orgasm as my fingers stop rubbing when my orgasm comes).
We are very clear with what we set out to achieve - we are a natural website, we do everything in our power to show real natural orgasms as they would happen in the ladies real natural lives. Times and trends change. Personally I review almost all the video's before they hit the website and I have not noticed an insertion trend but will keep a curious eye out for it from now on but especially with younger ladies who will be more in touch with modern trends it is possible that for some pop culture reasons woman may be exploring their internal paths to orgasm along side external stimulation./ I do know from talking to our models that a lot of them are aware about squirting something I never spoke to with my friends when I was younger. Maybe an awareness of the G spot (again not something we heard about at school) means woman these days are more aware of all the tools available to them to give themselves pleasure after all woman are very lucky in the magic button department!
wow thats such a detailed answer Masie and I think its true that AWs make sure that orgasms are real and natural. Also today models have more access to sexual information through the internet, porn or other sexual health related articles which give women more knowledge and awareness of their bodies and how to activate them
For me when I like to use different things but my usually I do some kind of combination. For example I like to rub my clitoris at different stages during my play but insertion is an important part of helping me reach orgasm. I feel like I need both to achieve orgasm or at least a really good one. Its common for me to start by rubbing my clitoris and then insert something like a finger or toy and then to continue alternating or do both simultaneously until I reach orgasm.
Alex, thanks for giving us detailed information about have you prefer to have an orgasm. It is interesting to read that your method is planned out in advance. For myself I also may plan it in advance and don't always do it on the spur of the moment. Sometimes (for what ever reason makes it come into my mind) I simple say to myself I think I'll have a nice cum for myself and perhaps by myself. Sometimes I may go and find my partner and say, " I need to have an orgasm. Please help me to cum". But however the method the end result is my obligation to have happen. My partner helps me to have an orgasm but not the responsibility to make it happen. Now after reading your description I feel like I NEED to go and have a good wank.
Alex, one other thing but a completely different subject. The stills of your shoot with Brett showed anal penetration but in the video there wasn't any anal. Were the stills and video done on different days? The beginning scene was the same....the shower, but the end result was different.
I dont think its that I plan when I am going to masturbate, the time and place I do it does change depending on my mood and the toy I use may be different like sometimes the pressure from the shower, a vibrator, just my fingers or whatever else is available. But what I notice is that when I am doing it, thats usually what I do, I guess thats just the technique that will get me to the point of orgasm.
As for the video i did with Brett, yes they were shot on two different days one for photos and one for video. AWs does it that way I think so it is more relaxing for the couple and to guarantee quality production and outcome, no rushing or stress the two days just allows everyone to relax more and gives us all more time.
Not to mention that the grand total of the instructions for the shoot are "Now, I'm going to turn this camera on and you should have fun and masturbate. Take as much time as you need, do it however you like. Oh and the way I've set this up, if you stand up, your head will be cut off the camera, do you stand up a lot when you masturbate? No? Ok, awesome! Have fun!" -exit stage left-
Now, I dunno about you, but when I masturbate sometimes I don't wanna orgasm immediately. Sometimes, I just wanna do things that feel nice and build up to it. I dunno if the statistics mentioned anything about what it feels like to put your fingers (or another object) inside your vagina - but let me tell you, it feels quite nice! So yes, for me personally, if I wanna orgasm in 0.5 seconds, I can just rub my clit vigorously and "Orgams ahoy!" but sometimes you want to do a bit of exploring too.
To illustrate my point:
Imagine a woman (or man, if you prefer, but I assume not cause we're on abbywinters) is performing oral sex on you. It feels lovely, but you decided you might like to try having her lick your balls because you saw it in that porno and it looked lovely (or you read about it somewhere if you don't watch hetero porn). So you ask her, nicely, if she wouldn't mind just licking them a bit, to see how it feels. However, she firmly informs you that 99.9% of men orgasm from stimulation of the shaft of the penis (or the glans, or something, I don't really know exactly what gets you guys off ) and she won't do it. MEAN right?!
I realise that oral sex and masturbation aren't the same, but the 'end goal' in both cases is to orgasm. I guess the point I'm making is that masturbation, oral sex, any kind of sex isn't just about cumming. I don't know many people who can orgasm from sticking a finger up their bum, but that doesn't stop anyone from trying it (and hopefully, liking it).