I know this is not really anything new, but it's one of the things I think makes for the hottest videos. Maybe it's been on this board before. Anyway, the hottest sex ever for me always involves getting her just to the brink and then stopping completely for a short time. Of course, this can be repeated as many times as she can stand it. Ultimately, the outcome can be incredible for her, which makes it incredible for me. I know that this is a matter of degree and that most people do this to some degree. Seeing her get "overwhelmed" by her orgasm is for me the most erotic possibility of all, and it seems that stopping a few times can help, at least for some women. I do see this in some IMs, I'd love to see more.