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    Sexual Curiosity

    I believe I submitted this question for discussion some time ago but had very few real answers in the forum. Being a man, it is very obvious when I or any man gets aroused sexually (Horny). Penis gets erect and nerve endings are screaming. Healthy men can't help having this occur when they are sexually attracted.

    The question is what happens physical to a young woman when they are attracted to a man or when they have no BF or man and "need" some personal attention. I know every man or woman has individual sexual signs that get them started but I would Like to hear from the Models or female members exactly what happened when they are sexually excited. Does a woman get suddenly wet or moist, a hot flash? Does a woman actually feel her Clitoris get hard or erect? Just what happens? Educate me please I have never been taught the inner workings of a woman.

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    Gets me excited and turned on...just reading your post, Chazmataz !...and im a guy !

    p.s. i like that name !...chazmataz.
    Last edited by tjsunray; 12 November 2011, 04:37 PM.

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      #3
      I get an ache between my legs. It is almost unbarable, it very much makes me sqirm. The first time I felt it I left the room and had to walk around till it went. If you imagine a deep vivid feeling that starts in that one spot and starts to grow and threatens to take over your whole body. It never travels up past my belly button or bellow the top of my legs but each time I am convinsed it will over take me. Now I know what it is it is a wanted and amazing feeling. In many ways I think I enjoy the prelonged desire of sex more than sex itself. I do not think there are any outward signs that I am turned on thought other than my eyes. I am like an open book my eyes show desire as if it were written inside the pupils x

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        #4
        Masie...Thanks you for your honest response to my curiosity question. It would be interesting if other women had the same ache or if they respond in other ways. You are an amazing woman for sure and just love your sessions with women or by yourself. One of the possibilities I'm trying to confirm is whether a woman can actually feel her Clitoris enlarge without touching it and finding it swelling due to excitement. This question may sound strange but it isn't one that you can walk up to any woman and ask...

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          #5
          Thanks for the name complement Tjsunray...I have used it for many years. Sorry the question turned you on as it was not my intention

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            #6
            chazmataz...i can't help coming back to this thread...( just so that i get to type out your name ..haha...smiles aren't working atm) Seriously though !.. and i know you would prefer females responding to your question... i hope you will get more of a response, since the question you raised has always fascinated me as well.

            I recall this one time in a small, dark lit Italian pizza restaurant, we were playing " footsies" under the table, for which i was able to remove one of my shoes, since the table cloth almost reached the floor. Although, as i was enjoying watching her reaction and facial expressions, my mind was mainly consumed with thoughts of what was she actually feeling...between her legs, breasts, nipples, where else ? as my foot wondered just above her knee..as if to tease. I knew if i went up further i could probably feel some heat and wetness.

            The strange thing is...i never in my life posed the question myself, that you are asking, but the thoughts that conjured up in my mind, during dating ( even just holding hands ) always made the evening that much more pleasurable and exciting for me.

            p.s. just to fill you in..this all going back some 20 years or so.
            Last edited by tjsunray; 13 November 2011, 07:18 PM.

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              #7
              For me, it is more like a throbbing between the legs. I know things are getting engorged and wet, but those aren't the sensations I am really conscious of. It is probably similar to the ache Masie spoke of. If I get super crazy turned on, and this only happens occasionally, I get really light headed and the world seems a little fuzzy, like all the blood is leaving my head and going to my body, but it in the best way possible. This only happens if I'm getting super turned on but don't get to do anything about it. The other thing that happens, even more rarely, is I'll be thinking about an amazingly hot sexual encounter, from say the night before, and I get this pull or ache in my chest, hope that isn't a bad sign for my heart! None of this really happens from just looking at a hot guy or being generally horny. It is usually a very hot fantasy, good romance novel sex scene or erotic, porn, steamy sexting or cybering, etc. To answer your more specific question, I've never literally felt my clitoris enlarging, I just know the throbbing means that is happening.

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                #8
                Just thought I'd jump in and add my reaction as it seems to be a little different from the other two ladies.
                I do feel a slight "heat" between my legs, and sometimes a little bit of a tingly feeling running up towards my belly button, but for me the most sensation is in my breasts. My nipples get really hard and I can intensely feel the fabric of my bra (or my shirt if I'm not wearing a bra) so every time I move the fabric running across my nipples sends a little thrill down my chest and between my legs. I also get a feeling like my breasts are aching to be held or squeezed.
                Unless I'm being touched there, I don't have a lot of attention focused "down there" when I first get turned on. I prefer a LOT of playing with my breasts and bum before anything else happens, I don't really like being touched between my legs until other areas of my body have been thoroughly explored

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                  #9
                  Thank You so much for your input Renae_d. It really is so amazing the different feelings and reactions that occur in our bodies when aroused. It is also interesting that the throbbing between your legs indicates an enlarging Clitoris to you. I have been told by my partners in the past that when playing with the Clitoris they were able to feel it getting harder much like a man's penis. I guess that is where my original curiosity came from. The other interesting item from women is that there always a point in their masturbation where they physically and mentally know they are going to Orgasm. The journey to Orgasm for many of them was almost if not more pleasurable than the Orgasm itself. I personally have always enjoyed what I call the "announcement" of pleasure. To wit.."I'm cumming." That has always allowed myself to add to my partner's orgasmic bliss and mine. Once again thank You for your honesty and input!!

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                    #10
                    Kylie_h thank you very much for "jumping in." Tingly is another adjective interesting to me. Must be the nerve endings in that area going nuts...lol As a man I know that feeling. I think the wanting to be aroused more thru breasts and bum is not unusual for the most part. The reason (I have been told) that Women love to make love to Women is that they know just where to touch or lick or kiss and what pressure to use better than men. I can't argue with that statement as I wouldn't win anyway..lol I have had several encounters spending 30 minutes on those areas you expressed needed "prepping" before getting to that nether region for completion and the women involved always seemed to experience a stronger Orgasm. Thanks again for your input..looking forward to seeing you in new shoots if possible...

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                      #11
                      Interesting that you say that. Though, I would disagree that women are "better" than men, purely because they have the same body parts I do. I've had enough experiences with both men and women to say that neither gender comes out "on top" and that it's up to individuals and their own sexiness, quirks and ideas that really make me weak at the knees. I do find that when I want someone to be rough with me, I prefer it to be a man, and when I want someone to tease me until I scream from the anticipation, then a girl is generally preferred.

                      I have a new Intimate Moment coming out quite soon actually, and have some insider knowledge that there might be a few more shoots in the "vault"...

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                        #12
                        Wow...
                        kylie, I think you are right. Men and women feel turned on in just about the same way, based on the relative differences in our physical makeups.
                        chaz: there really is a female erection! I once made love with a lady whose clit grew from 1/2 a small finger, to the size of my thumb. In that, I kid you not.

                        (( as for a female ejaculation? I can't attest to that one))
                        rene & massie: These are some beautiful comments on a terribly personal and nearly inscrutable part of human experiences. I love your candor!

                        For myself:
                        If strongly attracted to a woman: I feel a dull awakening, one part of my brain is suppressed, and part set free. It's relaxation and tension at once. I feel a general sense of awe about it all, and really don't much notice what's happening to my crotch, altho no doubt my testicles are moving, and my penis beginning an erection.
                        The entire front of my body...my chest...my face...is being pulled, and all of my back....I actually feel myself being pushed, firmly and steadily...towards the woman. It's very much a whole-body sensation.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by kylie_h View Post
                          I have a new Intimate Moment coming out quite soon actually, and have some insider knowledge that there might be a few more shoots in the "vault"...
                          How good is that to read....

                          Like TJ... I think this is a very interest topic for us males to read. Although it does go to prove that every female is different so its not easy for us males to be studs all the time
                          Maybe Kylie can hint to the new models on the boards to check this thread out and add their own "spin" on the subject.

                          Pinky

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by kylie_h View Post
                            Just thought I'd jump in and add my reaction as it seems to be a little different from the other two ladies.
                            I do feel a slight "heat" between my legs, and sometimes a little bit of a tingly feeling running up towards my belly button, but for me the most sensation is in my breasts. My nipples get really hard and I can intensely feel the fabric of my bra (or my shirt if I'm not wearing a bra) so every time I move the fabric running across my nipples sends a little thrill down my chest and between my legs. I also get a feeling like my breasts are aching to be held or squeezed.
                            Unless I'm being touched there, I don't have a lot of attention focused "down there" when I first get turned on. I prefer a LOT of playing with my breasts and bum before anything else happens, I don't really like being touched between my legs until other areas of my body have been thoroughly explored
                            I have the same really. I remember someone telling me theiy 'throbbed' once when I was younger and I was like "oh no, mine just gets hot! what if its broken!" lol!
                            When I get around it just gets super warm. Sometimes I don't notice as I'm generally busy, but as soon as I relax, sit down or whatever then I notice. My nipples however don't really get hard, I wonder if its because they are so small! They only really get hard if they are touched, but it has to be really softly to start with. I don't tend to play there much, or down there till I have a lot of touching lately. Doesn't matter where; neck, back, bottom etc. I think I rub my chest area (not breasts) and neck in most of my solo Abby vids... XD

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                              #15
                              It feels like the temperature in my vagina is suddenly a hundred degrees warmer than the rest of my body..... my breasts feel cold but firm and my nipples become hard and tingling....I then feel myself getting wet and feel an intense urge to touch myself or be touched. It's almost deadly. I think feeling all these things at once makes me a very passionate, if not aggresive bedpartner :P

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                                #16
                                My legs start shaking and I get that quivering type of feeling around the perlvic area. It's the KUNDALINI energy rising )

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                                  #17
                                  When I was first courting my boyfriend I was turned on by any little thing he did.
                                  Just his touch sent shivers down my body and between my legs, he turned me on just talking to me and feeling his breath close to my neck and mouth.
                                  I start feeling hot between my legs and my pussy starts throbbing and getting wet, oh and yes tingly would describe it very well!
                                  My nipple get hard but they aren’t very sensitive sometimes so they have to be really sucked hard for me to feel it.

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                                    #18
                                    I get very wet and I feel tickle between my legs. Also my nipples get hard and my whole body starts to shiver. Also I turn red very often in my face and neck.

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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by evelina View Post
                                      I get very wet and I feel tickle between my legs. Also my nipples get hard and my whole body starts to shiver. Also I turn red very often in my face and neck.
                                      All those sensations !!...lucky you girls....all we guys have to show for is a throbbing erection
                                      Last edited by tjsunray; 24 August 2012, 06:46 PM.

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                                        #20
                                        Woooo! such a nice thread! I really shake a lot during/before an orgasm. I can't think in another think and I get really hot and wet ♥

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                                          #21
                                          I get so so soooo wet! AHahahah sometime it's not so convenient depending on where I am . I love it though!

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                                            #22
                                            Hmm for me, i get this warmth like inside, i think on my gspot, like a themble right there. And i get all these pictures running on my head,eather previous experiences or maybe pictures or videos i tryed before. And i feel the need to touch myself, and i am getting like sweary, i get shivers on my back, and if i am at work i can not focus at all, then when i get home i have to touch myself badly(that is for when i am alone). When i am with my significant other, usually it feels like hunger. Like my mouth is all watery, my pussy feels like she is hungry and i really need to feel it inside. I am begging for the cock to be inside me! That is how i feel.

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                                              #23
                                              Humm,now thats so interesting
                                              whay do you guys wanna know the phisical signs of a woman being really turned on? Are you going to help a little bit more next time it happens next to you!?

                                              SO everytime friends talk about sex i am thinking about the last time when i felt that way they are describing it...and I am looking to the oposite side where the speaker stays bacause maybe my looks betrays me or my big smile...and if i am not wearing a bra, it could be even more obvious....SO walking away,I think keeps me away from jumping on the guy/girl.

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                                                #24
                                                From a male point of view, it's not just a case of getting hard - for me sometimes when I'm really turned on there's a kind of vibrating tingling sensation I get through my penis, and sometimes it's just nice to sit there and enjoy that for a while before "arriving".

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