My girlfriend thinks watching porn is cheating. Could someone explain why some women think so
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Not to say that I agree with your girlfriend, but let's imagine a scenario:
You come into your girlfriend's bedroom and the computer screen has got a very sexy man on it looking into the camera and gripping his rather large and girthy penis. She's in just a bra and going to town on a dildo.
Would you not feel a little pang of jealousy, even if you knew that was a silly reaction? Would you not think, 'hey, if you were so horny, I'm available you know!'? Or maybe, 'I wonder if she wished I had abs or penis like that guy?' Or ' does that dildo feel better than I do?'
We all experience sexual jealousy for someone we really like, and we all have insecurities. Technically it is illogical to consider it cheating, since that would mean ogling other women, or fantasizing about them would be cheating too, but it is a pretty natural reaction, I think.
I might be way off base, but what if you tried making your own 'porn' together. Doesn't have to be a video, could start with sexy bra and panties pics (or whatever she might be comfortable with). It might make porn a bit more relatable, and make her feel like she is #1 in your book for sexiness (which is what she really wants).
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Originally posted by renae_d View PostNot to say that I agree with your girlfriend, but let's imagine a scenario:
You come into your girlfriend's bedroom and the computer screen has got a very sexy man on it looking into the camera and gripping his rather large and girthy penis. She's in just a bra and going to town on a dildo.
Would you not feel a little pang of jealousy, even if you knew that was a silly reaction? Would you not think, 'hey, if you were so horny, I'm available you know!'? Or maybe, 'I wonder if she wished I had abs or penis like that guy?' Or ' does that dildo feel better than I do?'
We all experience sexual jealousy for someone we really like, and we all have insecurities. Technically it is illogical to consider it cheating, since that would mean ogling other women, or fantasizing about them would be cheating too, but it is a pretty natural reaction, I think.
I might be way off base, but what if you tried making your own 'porn' together. Doesn't have to be a video, could start with sexy bra and panties pics (or whatever she might be comfortable with). It might make porn a bit more relatable, and make her feel like she is #1 in your book for sexiness (which is what she really wants).
One of the things I have liked about this site over the years is it features women who look like someone who I might see on the street, in a bar, or at a social event -- not on a New York or Milan catwalk.
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