Dear Models of Abby Winters,
I'm writing to tell you how beautiful I think you are. Each and every one of you has your own unique kind of beauty, and I am so very happy you are willing to share that here. I know people who would try to make you ashamed for posing nude and sharing yourselves this way. Mostly they are feminists who believe that by allowing yourself to be sexually objectified, you cause all kinds of evil in the word, from wrecking marriages to rape.
It is my hope that you never allow anyone to create shame in you for sharing your beauty here. You will always have the right to hand it back because it truly does not belong to you! There is nothing wrong with what you do here or who you are.
I've been struggling lately with a response to a "sex-positive anti-porn feminist" who thinks this way. I doubt she'll ever read it but maybe it's not all that important. It was useful for me to think these things through better. If any of you ever need a good sedative to help fall asleep and like philosophy, feel free to have at what I wrote here. I think and write too much sometimes as you can see.
Since this is a forum to talk about what "what works and does not" for the porn of Abby Winters, I'm going to share in greater detail what I like about this site and why. My manifesto is in a place where my family can reach it, and there are some things it is probably better I don't blog about publicly in deference to them.
Before I say what is particularly valuable to me about Abby Winters, I'm going to clarify something. I believe that the feminists do have a certain point in their arguments. There is much pornography that is harmful to men and women alike. It creates poor images of what people are really like and what sexuality is about. In fact, I'd say that the vast majority of mainstream porn that is produced and consumed is not very worthwhile or downright harmful. Misogyny creates bad porn which creates more misogyny in a vicious cycle. I see sites like Abby Winters bucking that trend. The people opposing all porn outright will probably not stop this trend, but you just might. My general experience in life is that you can't change big things by opposing them (you get run over). The only way to change big things is often to get inside and give it little nudges in the right direction, slowly changing course until you get where you need to be.
I appreciate that the models of Abby Winters come in nearly every imaginable color, shape and form that is fairly representative of the women I meet day-to-day. You all have your scars and quirks as do I. None of us is perfect and too many girls grow up thinking they need to starve themselves in order to attain the unattainable form that was only created to sell them a lot of worthless crap. I have a friend who is so obsessed with her appearance and acne scars that she is destroying her own face trying to change it. The reality is that no one sees those scars but her and so she is literally tearing herself apart for nothing. If reason doesn't work in this case, what will? It's tragic and even when I was in a relationship with her and gave her the affirmation she needed it was still never enough.
The wide variety of activities in the shoots is nice. I appreciate that I've occasionally seen models with tampons (which is a little bit of a turn-off that I still like for other reasons), as well as models peeing (also not a huge turn-on particularly but since it involves nudity is still fun for me to see) or doing other silly things with your bodies and just enjoying the shoot. Sometimes I think of you as women (which you clearly are) and sometimes I think of you as girls because I can see the inner child in your playfulness. And please understand that I'm not the least bit interested in young girls sexually- my tastes on porn steer me clear of women who shave themselves completely because of this in part. I respect your right to do so however and can certainly understand many reasons why you might want to, and why other adults might appreciate it too without it indicating pedophilia either. I'll admit that at times shaving can be hot, but it just isn't a primary interest for me. I still wouldn't appreciate the site as much if there weren't shaved women here either to be honest. With each new model it leads me to wonder before I find out, and there's a certain pleasure in the discovery at times.
One of my absolute favorite features of the site has been videos of the women who give us virtual tours of their bodies and talk about what they like, dislike and why. I enjoy hearing stories about what turns you on and other exciting escapades that you relate. I really value the women who are willing to share their orgasms and aren't afraid of their sexual power but who use it for our good. I also know that every model has her own limits of comfort and I respect that and appreciate very much whatever you have to contribute.
I hope each of you has a long and wonderful life full of much love and hot sex with partners who challenge you to grow with them. A danger in living too long is accumulating regrets and I do hope that your contributions here will never become one of them - the fewer regrets you accumulate over the long run the better. Perhaps you'll find yourself some day many years from now in a much more worn and tired body that doesn't feel as sexy any more, and I hope that you can look back still and appreciate what you did and experience some of that pride and happiness in your sex again. I hope you never grow too old to enjoy your sexual nature, or that if you do, you won't be aware of missing it because you'll have other joys to take its place.
By the way, I don't know if you've seen much news of this over there, but here in the U.S. there's a porn star who is running for government. I've not seen her work, but I admit from that small interview, I rather like her spirit and wish I lived in that district so I could vote for her.
Mike
I'm writing to tell you how beautiful I think you are. Each and every one of you has your own unique kind of beauty, and I am so very happy you are willing to share that here. I know people who would try to make you ashamed for posing nude and sharing yourselves this way. Mostly they are feminists who believe that by allowing yourself to be sexually objectified, you cause all kinds of evil in the word, from wrecking marriages to rape.
It is my hope that you never allow anyone to create shame in you for sharing your beauty here. You will always have the right to hand it back because it truly does not belong to you! There is nothing wrong with what you do here or who you are.
I've been struggling lately with a response to a "sex-positive anti-porn feminist" who thinks this way. I doubt she'll ever read it but maybe it's not all that important. It was useful for me to think these things through better. If any of you ever need a good sedative to help fall asleep and like philosophy, feel free to have at what I wrote here. I think and write too much sometimes as you can see.
Since this is a forum to talk about what "what works and does not" for the porn of Abby Winters, I'm going to share in greater detail what I like about this site and why. My manifesto is in a place where my family can reach it, and there are some things it is probably better I don't blog about publicly in deference to them.
Before I say what is particularly valuable to me about Abby Winters, I'm going to clarify something. I believe that the feminists do have a certain point in their arguments. There is much pornography that is harmful to men and women alike. It creates poor images of what people are really like and what sexuality is about. In fact, I'd say that the vast majority of mainstream porn that is produced and consumed is not very worthwhile or downright harmful. Misogyny creates bad porn which creates more misogyny in a vicious cycle. I see sites like Abby Winters bucking that trend. The people opposing all porn outright will probably not stop this trend, but you just might. My general experience in life is that you can't change big things by opposing them (you get run over). The only way to change big things is often to get inside and give it little nudges in the right direction, slowly changing course until you get where you need to be.
I appreciate that the models of Abby Winters come in nearly every imaginable color, shape and form that is fairly representative of the women I meet day-to-day. You all have your scars and quirks as do I. None of us is perfect and too many girls grow up thinking they need to starve themselves in order to attain the unattainable form that was only created to sell them a lot of worthless crap. I have a friend who is so obsessed with her appearance and acne scars that she is destroying her own face trying to change it. The reality is that no one sees those scars but her and so she is literally tearing herself apart for nothing. If reason doesn't work in this case, what will? It's tragic and even when I was in a relationship with her and gave her the affirmation she needed it was still never enough.
The wide variety of activities in the shoots is nice. I appreciate that I've occasionally seen models with tampons (which is a little bit of a turn-off that I still like for other reasons), as well as models peeing (also not a huge turn-on particularly but since it involves nudity is still fun for me to see) or doing other silly things with your bodies and just enjoying the shoot. Sometimes I think of you as women (which you clearly are) and sometimes I think of you as girls because I can see the inner child in your playfulness. And please understand that I'm not the least bit interested in young girls sexually- my tastes on porn steer me clear of women who shave themselves completely because of this in part. I respect your right to do so however and can certainly understand many reasons why you might want to, and why other adults might appreciate it too without it indicating pedophilia either. I'll admit that at times shaving can be hot, but it just isn't a primary interest for me. I still wouldn't appreciate the site as much if there weren't shaved women here either to be honest. With each new model it leads me to wonder before I find out, and there's a certain pleasure in the discovery at times.
One of my absolute favorite features of the site has been videos of the women who give us virtual tours of their bodies and talk about what they like, dislike and why. I enjoy hearing stories about what turns you on and other exciting escapades that you relate. I really value the women who are willing to share their orgasms and aren't afraid of their sexual power but who use it for our good. I also know that every model has her own limits of comfort and I respect that and appreciate very much whatever you have to contribute.
I hope each of you has a long and wonderful life full of much love and hot sex with partners who challenge you to grow with them. A danger in living too long is accumulating regrets and I do hope that your contributions here will never become one of them - the fewer regrets you accumulate over the long run the better. Perhaps you'll find yourself some day many years from now in a much more worn and tired body that doesn't feel as sexy any more, and I hope that you can look back still and appreciate what you did and experience some of that pride and happiness in your sex again. I hope you never grow too old to enjoy your sexual nature, or that if you do, you won't be aware of missing it because you'll have other joys to take its place.
By the way, I don't know if you've seen much news of this over there, but here in the U.S. there's a porn star who is running for government. I've not seen her work, but I admit from that small interview, I rather like her spirit and wish I lived in that district so I could vote for her.
Mike
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