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    Horrible 40's & 50's

    I had a few spare minutes so I went into the models’ forum and this post caught my eye,

    Originally posted by daimm9 View Post
    Although I hope that AW never goes for the horrible "40s & 50's" that many American sites feature, if a girl is lucky enough, or has worked hard enough, to keep her figure, I can see no reason why she should not strip and spread for our delight.

    As I’m only four years away from hitting 40 I was wondering what makes the 40s & 50s “horrible”? Is it the sites (e.g. Aunt Judy’s) and the way they portray the older woman or is it the women themselves who have provoked this reaction? I realise that this site specialises in teen and post-teen girls and that they have a certain aesthetic appeal but are middle-aged women really that unappealing by comparison?

    If you do reply to this, please tell us your age as I would like to see if that has any bearing on your opinion. Oh and be frank as possible!!!

    #2
    The 40's there was a world war,and the 50's we still had rationing.

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      #3
      The real trouble here is(with these kind of sites that i have witnessed)the natural look is forbadden,with no exception they are all totally caked in make-up,i appreciate the older lady might think she needs a bit of slap,but not to the point where you look like a whatever happened to baby jane doll.

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        #4
        Hmm, older women generally wear more makeup anyway.

        One thing I don’t care for is the sex-starved MILF & GILF concept. I don’t like the term MILF anyway, preferring instead “Yummy Mummy”. The MILF site premise is that the older woman is so desperate for a fuck that she will have it off with any young man that happens along, be it a UPS delivery boy or her son’s best mate. Of course the horny sex-starved housewife concept can be seen as an indication on her husband's abilities to satisfy his wife!!

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          #5
          According to my aesthetics, females are at their most beautiful when they're 15-16. That doesn't imply that there aren't any older women I find attractive (some of the 'older' women on GOW I consider quite good-looking), but only that to me these women, as a rule, were even more alluring when they were still in their years of becoming.

          I'm 32.

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            #6
            No worry, Mrs. R... you will be lovely at any age.

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              #7
              Originally posted by artlover View Post
              No worry, Mrs. R... you will be lovely at any age.
              Thank you, though to be frank, I wasn't worried about myself. I do make an effort staying fit and trim though.

              Hmm, apart from some valid points by chiefbrody and Mermur this thread sorta resembles tumbleweed alley!!!

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                #8
                I'm kind of laughing on this one... and I'm curious how old the people are who would take issue with women in their 40's and 50's modelling on here. Maybe women that age wouldn't belong on a site that has traditionally only had younger women on it, but, just as the site is about to go through other changes, I'd personally see nothing wrong with an evolution like that. I've always enjoyed the company of older women - even before I became a "semi-old guy" myself. This post even brought back some fond memories of a 51-year-old I was dating back when I was in my mid-thirties. A mother of three who put a lot of girls in their 20's to shame! To me, having older women modelling on the site would just be another slice of life to enjoy...

                ********
                Still pissed at Yoko

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                  #9
                  Women can be beautiful at any age. Although we have so many lovelies on site here, I have to admit that they don't make me forget about older women. I see the potential in so many of these models for growing into beautiful women, but people in general don't hit their stride until later in life anyway. A combination of maturity and self-knowledge. I've dated older 3 out of 4 serious relationships. I would have no problem doing it again.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Mrs Roops View Post
                    Hmm, older women generally wear more makeup anyway.
                    I've had plenty of fantasies about older women, and I've been known to troll around looking for vids to help further those fantasies.
                    What bugs me is not the makeup, it's the ridiculously enhanced breasts! My gosh, it looks like they could remove them and put them on the bedtable at night, they seem so incongruououous (I can spell it, just don't know where to stop.)
                    I work with a 43 yr old woman who is really sexy, and she knows it, which makes her more sexy. From what I can tell (bend forward, sweetheart) her breasts are pert and smallish. My male coworkers and I discuss them frequently.

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                      #11
                      Horrible 40s and 50s

                      Originally posted by Mrs Roops View Post
                      As I’m only four years away from hitting 40 I was wondering what makes the 40s & 50s “horrible”? Is it the sites (e.g. Aunt Judy’s) and the way they portray the older woman or is it the women themselves who have provoked this reaction? I realise that this site specialises in teen and post-teen girls and that they have a certain aesthetic appeal but are middle-aged women really that unappealing by comparison?

                      If you do reply to this, please tell us your age as I would like to see if that has any bearing on your opinion. Oh and be frank as possible!!!
                      Thanks, Mrs Roops. How easy it is to be mis understood.

                      I will be frank and honest. I am an overweight man in my early 60s.

                      It is not that 40s and 50s girls are horrible. It is the American sites that specialise in models of those age groups that are horrible.
                      They seem to choose their models to be as gross, misshapen and unsexy as possible. These models are NOT typical of the women or the 40-60 age group. The members of the cast of "70 girl 70" were far better representatives of the mature ladies.

                      Some years ago I had the chance to attend a series of photographic sessions, where we were able to photograph two naked models in the open air at Nudist club. The girls were usually 19-25, but one day one model dropped out at short notice. A member of the club volunteered to tale her place. She was 40, and in tip top form.

                      The photo's from that day are amongst my favourites from any of these sessions. The combination of 20 year old professional model and 40 year old amateur was great, and the volunteer was in no way overshadowed by her younger partner.

                      I have seen her several times since, and she is still a wonderful looking girl.

                      There need be no absolute age limit for models. Just as Abby has shown the world how to get good looking photos of 18-25 year olds by treating them as human beings, so I would love to see a smaller site for models over 25. No upper age limits, but no caricatures need apply! Just women who still think of themselves as sexy girls.

                      Heres to over 40 girls. I am looking for a girl friend, and one of you may fit the bill!
                      Last edited by daimm9; 20 July 2007, 07:47 PM. Reason: Too many chances.

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                        #12
                        I'd like to be frank, as well, and admit that I am a 43 year old male, completely out of shape until 2 weeks ago, and am scared out of my mind. Recently, after a five year period of voluntary celibacy stemming from a horrible divorce, I met a 30 year old stunning young lady who I felt an immediate physical attraction to. The best part was that she felt the same way, but with one exception. She was able to become aroused and I could not, for the life of me, achieve an erection. I was absolutely shocked for my ex-wife used to accuse me of being a sex addict, claiming that I demanded sex 2-3 times a day (untrue) and that I would never "leave her be" (untrue). However, I was always able to sexually function.

                        With my new friend, days turned into weeks, and I finally went to my physician two days ago, and was prescribed one of those erectile dysfunction medications, which I have yet to take. I should also point out that since my divorce, I have suffered from a medical condition which requires a bunch of medicines to control. My physician did say that the ED medication should help me, but what if it doesn't?

                        My point is that it ain't only the ladies that have to fear these decades, for more and more I am sharing common stories with guys who can't function sexually any more. It kind of sucks, too, for I would be delighted to make love to a 56 year old woman just as much as I would to my current girlfriend. I am frustrated and frightened at the same time and know that she isn't going to wait around forever, as she cannot even imagine being impotent or frigid or whatever else we want to say about this.

                        Thus far, my 40s have been the worst decade of my life--with the exception of this site--and even the lovelies have nothing to fear from this fellow~~~

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                          #13
                          A lot of things can interfere with an erection, Ksos, and not all of them are psychological. Certain medications can make cause ED, and being out of shape can. So can too much fatigue and stress. The only way to find out if the ED medication works is to try it. And be thankful your girlfriend seems to have a good heart. Good luck--I'll be thinking of you.

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                            #14
                            My most recent girlfriend was my age and, like me, overweight. She was also smart, funny, kind, spiritual, creative and in general a lot of fun to be around. As a result, when I saw her nude, I was overwhelmed by her beauty--what some see as fat I saw as abundance. It was not the kind of beauty that draws lot of hits on the web; it was inner beauty made visible. I am glad I was open-minded enough to give myself a chance to know the real her.

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by artlover View Post
                              The only way to find out if the ED medication works is to try it. And be thankful your girlfriend seems to have a good heart. Good luck--I'll be thinking of you.
                              Apart from being impressed with your candour, I can only echo Artie's sentiments. Lets us know how things progress with your GF and with the ED medication.

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                                #16
                                Originally posted by Mrs Roops View Post
                                Thank you, though to be frank,
                                Darling Mrs Roops,

                                I don't think you would ever pass as a Frank

                                oncall

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                                  #17
                                  I think ATK Hairy (recommended on the AW front page) does a good job presenting sexy older models. It's the laugh lines that do it for me, and the experienced womanly sexuality that comes through very strongly with some of the models.

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                                    #18
                                    One thing I do notice when ogling women in their 40's and 50's as straight up sex objects (as opposed to friends)...
                                    I sort of have to retrain myself as to what constitutes beauty.
                                    These pretty teens and twenty-somethings are all so smooth and relatively flawless.
                                    Whereas the 40's and 50's women, while pretty and attractive, have wrinkles, saggy parts, and less than smooth skin. Not a bad thing, but for those of us who are trained by our culture to idealize youth, it does take a bit of retraining.

                                    Southern Charms also has a bunch of natural-looking older women, I see their stuff in the "mature" newsgroups.

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                                      #19
                                      It's funny, but as I've gotten older, I find that my attitude towards many things have changed. While I still like to look at attractive young women, I find that I'm inclined to be drawn more to a woman's personality. It's usually something about her....I guess it's what you'd call her vibes....that interest me. If she has a nice smile, and laughs easily, or has a warm and friendly openess about her, then I find that I want to spend time with her. It might just be to chat, but I get that warm and fuzzy feeling inside when I connect with a woman like that. It doesn't matter what her physical attributes are, since those things change with time. Her personality doesn't change, so she'll still be the same person 30 years from now, even if she looks a little different.
                                      The last woman I dated was back when I was pumping iron. She was a good bit overweight, but I was attracted to her because of her face and the way she dressed.(she looked like Reba MacIntire). We dated for a while and she had a great laugh, a good sense of humor, and she was an interesting person to talk to. She was also the best sex partner I ever had. One time we stayed in bed for 4 days, only getting up to eat and take showers. I'd probably still be dating her, but she didn't want to get serious. She just wanted to date forever, which I didn't care for, so we went our separate ways. I still miss her laughter and our friendly bantering.
                                      It might make for an interesting section here at AW if years from now she would have the same models do another photoshoot when they hit 40. They could fill us in on what they've been up to for the past 20 years.

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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by oncall View Post
                                        Darling Mrs Roops,

                                        I don't think you would ever pass as a Frank

                                        oncall
                                        I could make a bad joke about beans and franks, but I won't.

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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Mrs Roops View Post
                                          I had a few spare minutes so I went into the models’ forum and this post caught my eye,


                                          As I’m only four years away from hitting 40 I was wondering what makes the 40s & 50s “horrible”? Is it the sites (e.g. Aunt Judy’s) and the way they portray the older woman or is it the women themselves who have provoked this reaction? I realise that this site specialises in teen and post-teen girls and that they have a certain aesthetic appeal but are middle-aged women really that unappealing by comparison?

                                          If you do reply to this, please tell us your age as I would like to see if that has any bearing on your opinion. Oh and be frank as possible!!!
                                          I think it's probably the portrayal- I'm not familiar with those particular sites, but if it's the kind of look I'm thinking of (makeup applied by a plasterer, bleached blonde perms and ludicrous boob jobs...) it's not one I find appealing either. On the other hand, I've always found an attractive older woman irresistable- I remember in my early 20s, in my first job afer college having a major thing about one of the managers, a very attractive, elegant woman in her mid 30's. Nearly 20 years later, I still run into her from time to time, she's now in her early 50's, and I still find myself imagining taking her to bed almost as much as I do the very cute 20-year old secretary in our office....

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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Seasider View Post
                                            I I remember in my early 20s, in my first job afer college having a major thing about one of the managers, a very attractive, elegant woman in her mid 30's.
                                            I at age 19 (far longer ago than I care to think about) had the good fortune to lose my virginity to a woman of comparable age. And I'd say my most memorable relationships have mostly been with older women. The oldest was 46 to my 23, and (if she is still alive) would be 88 by now...


                                            takochan

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                                              #23
                                              I'm a 46 year old guy and date males and females both younger and older than me. Before I got into guys in my late 20's nearly all of my gf's were older than me ( but not by much - on average 3 or 4 years ). As I've got older I've become more comfortable with myself and have found that in my partners too ( most of them anyway ). I do enjoy looking at the 20 somethings on this site as it rekindles past experiences but I am realistic enough to know that I am no longer a young buck and how many of them would seriously want to shag a greying, thickening, middleaged uncle? I've moved on and know what I want. Women my age also know what they want and we are prepared to work at it. I prefer to get my car serviced by a mechanic with 30 years experience, not the apprentice. Same thing with my libido.
                                              I love stretchmarks and cellulite and a little extra padding - they are all campaign medals of a life well lived.
                                              Not even a fridge full of cold spoons in the old folks home are going to keep me down!
                                              pee x

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                                                #24
                                                Some women are still gorgeous in their 40s and 50s,Carol Vorderman from channel 4s countdown springs
                                                to mind,she's around mid 40s,and I wouldn't say no!!

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                                                  #25
                                                  Hmmmmm

                                                  Some people write too much.. I skipped at least 1/2 the reply's !!!

                                                  Horrible 40's ? its all to do with concept ... we are what we are,
                                                  like me or hate me.. thats it

                                                  Peace

                                                  SirConny
                                                  xxx

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                                                    #26
                                                    i am a woman in my mid-sixties and in a wheelchair to boot. i look younger but most likely because i am animated and interested in everyone and everything.

                                                    when we were both in our early sixties, a man and i fell in love, wham. we blushed, we got aroused at the mere sight of each other, the slightest touch of a hand was enough to send me into a tizzy. and him too. we could barely speak, weren't sleeping at night, weren't eating and so forth. circumstance kept us apart physically except for one GLORIOUS time, the best sex i have ever had and we had both been celibate for quite a while. being so mature and so much in love, it was violins and bells and fireworks. we are still madly in love, but again, circumstances have kept us apart. just as well. i don't want to marry, i am no good at marriage or even live-in. because of my childhood experiences, no doubt.

                                                    i love this man so much, my heart still pounds at the thought or sight of him. i am overweight and dogged by depression and PTSD. he is greatly overweight but is also very tall and has very large bones, so, while he still looks just plain fat, he moves with that grace that fat people sometimes have and he is one gorgeous man. i am not the only one who thinks so. he has a following...

                                                    the forties and fifties, for me, were times of uproar and growth. things really settled down a lot in my 50's and i had fun. i pretty much always have fun, actually. i lost a lot (A LOT) when this disability came on and was really desolate, but now am gradually adjusting to it.

                                                    truth: in my whole life, i have never wanted for romantic attention. (not referring to the abuse here.). even now, getting on the bus in my wheelchair in my high sexy spike heels, my bright grey/blonde hair, indetectable makeup and great perfume, i get tons of attention from men and women. people have many times analyzed it for me, with stars in their eyes: you are not really pretty but you are so, uh, uh, radiant/shiny/funny/deep/sexy/likeable, i just want to be with you, i want to sleep with you.

                                                    me: but, believe me, i have the body of a 65 yo woman.
                                                    them: who gives a shit?? it's YOU i want to hold and kiss not your body...

                                                    goes on like this..

                                                    so i dunno. i cannot truthfully say that any time in my adult life was horrible. it has gotten a lot better as i've aged, not nearly so unhappy and tormented and confused as in my 20's.

                                                    just wait'll the chosen few/one sees my brilliant pink pubes. if i get up the guts to do it....

                                                    wow. tired of myself now. yall must think i am immodest. but the truth was called for and i told the truth. it has nothing to do with looks. has a lot to do with being interested in people and things and ideas outside yourself. i bore myself shitless, actually.

                                                    love to all,
                                                    dancer

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                                                      #27
                                                      sir conda...

                                                      you really remind me of someone, but i cannot for the life of me think who...

                                                      have you ever been on the forums before? i've only been here since january.

                                                      i dunno. it's weird. hope i recall soon before i got nuts. or, i mean, more nuts.

                                                      dancer

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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by wannadance View Post
                                                        i am a woman in my mid-sixties and in a wheelchair to boot. i look younger but most likely because i am animated and interested in everyone and everything.

                                                        That animation and interest is what makes you such a delight to know.



                                                        Originally posted by wannadance View Post
                                                        it has nothing to do with looks. has a lot to do with being interested in people and things and ideas outside yourself.
                                                        That's precisely it.

                                                        Originally posted by wannadance View Post
                                                        i bore myself shitless, actually.
                                                        You and Prince Orlovsky both? But you don't bore us!!!

                                                        takochan

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                                                          #29
                                                          thank you..

                                                          thank you, dear tako, you are such a gallant gentleman. it's a vastly underrated quality in a man or is the product of ignorance. i have know a few gallant gentlemen in my life, so i recognize one when i see him.

                                                          i am very complimented and touched by your kind and loving words.
                                                          thank you so much.

                                                          dancer
                                                          member of our mutual admiration society.

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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by wannadance View Post

                                                            i am very complimented and touched by your kind and loving words.
                                                            thank you so much.

                                                            dancer
                                                            member of our mutual admiration society. (emphasis added)
                                                            Dear MOOMAS

                                                            The pleasure is entirely mine.



                                                            takochan

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