Unique or not, I look forward to the boy/girl scenes done in AW fashion. People saying horrible things to each other while they spit, and/or are spat upon is not exciting to me. This has kept the bulk of my interest in films from the 70's because they at least acted like they wanted to have sex with the PERSON and not just the BODY. Its nice to be able to see this kind of interaction in good lighting and a dearth of dicks with sideburns. :P
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The Problem With Guys In AW "GB" Shoots
It would seem there are some basic problems with the BOY/GIRL shoots - which are made even more difficult if one insists that the BOY in the shoot has to be the GIRL's main squeeze. F'rinstance, the KYLIE_H and her boyfriend GB shoot was, I feel certain, very difficult for the guy - it was obvious he had some performance issues - and who wouldn't? I think he did GREAT - considering all.
For openers, he is not a professional porno-guy - there's several other people bustling around in the room at the same time, there is studio lighting and the whole idea of sex-as-a-product-predicated on-his-erection would seem to be a guaranteed buzz-killer in his head. Well it sure would for me.
Despite his obvious devotion to KYLIE_H and desire to participate, the man has to "do stuff" - whereas a woman simply has only to look beautiful and be receptive to the activity and, ultimately, there's no real way to tell if she's faking it; the complete obverse is true for the guy.
Then there are several GB shoots where what's supposed to be "the BOY" turns out to be what appears more like an "aging/graying/balding/paunchy lecher" - the net result is that "THE GIRL" seems to have taken up with somebody far less interesting and attractive than is she. It's all very confusing.
Were I to be recruiting for a GB shoot, mebbe the thing I'd do is start out with a suitable BOY and find one who has a girl who'd be willing to appear with him.
Another issue: Girls masturbating is one thing - but for some reason, it just doesn't seem to be as attractive an activity when the guys do it... not sure why. It might be interesting to have JUST A GUY masturbating - with no girl in the scene - that actually might work better than the tag-team approach we've seen a couple of times. As I understand it, the members of the AW site are, to a great extent, WOMEN - as opposed to it strictly MEN as with many such explicit sites. It may be that women might enjoy watching a guy get his yayas - as it is for men & women to watch women do the same.
Well - it's a thought.
Please note - these are no complaints in this note - just observations. Also - to enhance the appeal of GB shoots, the "IM" approach of a stationary camera setup with nobody else "on the set" might end up working better than the (supposedly artistic and allegedly more interesting) use of different camera angles and locations.Last edited by Frans; 14 April 2013, 09:12 AM. Reason: pic removed, please read rules about posting pictures
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I probably shouldn't comment on "notarysojac" post as I do not watch the G/B shoots
BUT... I will say I disagree with 99.9% of it... From my understanding of the reason behind the real life couple thing and why it seems very popular with many members is because its about the love and passion between the couple... Not just some prop that is there to pound away at a beautiful model.This is what sets it apart from mainstream porn.
Same as why the Girl/Girl shoots work so well as they are real.. The girls are not just screaming on cue or exaggerating (faking) for effect. It's what AW has always been about... It's what AW will hopefully always be about.
Also.... No facts here... But based on the boards and I'm sure someone at AWHQ has mentioned I think you will find that members of the AW site are, to a great extent, MEN - but is female friendly so may have more female members than many such explicit sites.
Well this is my reading on it...
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More on Guys in AW videos
There was one other point that might be worthy of inclusion in the "The Problem With Guys In AW "GB" Shoots" posting...
Watching women pleasure themselves tells you ALOT about what women find enjoyable. It would seem that one of the big lessons that men have to learn on the way to becoming better lovers is how much stimulation of the clitoris (versus simple vaginal penetration) is what brings on the most pleasurable sensations. In the same way, it has been my experience that women can have lots to learn about how best to stimulate a man.
F'rinstance, it's been my personal experience that many women have the very best intentions of delivering pleasure via oral and manual stimulation and yet are not aware of the areas of a man's genitals (and other areas) which are most receptive to such attentions. In practice, my female companions have lavishly attended to, essentially, dormant areas where there is no sensation to be had.
For women to be able to watch a man pleasure themselves would provide the opportunity to be better informed as to "what works for men". The stereotypical blow-jobs and hand-jobs seen in much of porn are often shown to, at the very end, be cut to a shot of the guy finishing the job for the women via his own hand - because the women were not capable- for whatever reason - of doing so themselves. Certainly there are other circumstances at play in such commercial productions - but a hand-job or blow-job can often be a long and laborious chore for a woman when she's not applying her energies to the best effect. Bottom line: The more you know about how your partner's body works, the more enjoyable will be the experience.
Well - if **I** was a woman - it would probably be the case that's I'd like to be an especially good lover and would want to know how to do the things for a man which, left to his own devices, he'd do for himself.
AW does such a great service for men by repeatedly showing what it is that women actually enjoy - it would seem an equally worthy opportunity to do the same for women.Last edited by garionhall; 16 April 2013, 12:33 AM. Reason: fixed a typo that made the meaning clear
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Originally posted by notarysojac View PostIt would seem there are some basic problems with the BOY/GIRL shoots - which are made even more difficult if one insists that the BOY in the shoot has to be the GIRL's main squeeze. F'rinstance, the KYLIE_H and her boyfriend GB shoot was, I feel certain, very difficult for the guy - it was obvious he had some performance issues - and who wouldn't? I think he did GREAT - considering all.
For openers, he is not a professional porno-guy - there's several other people bustling around in the room at the same time, there is studio lighting and the whole idea of sex-as-a-product-predicated on-his-erection would seem to be a guaranteed buzz-killer in his head. Well it sure would for me.
Then there are several GB shoots where what's supposed to be "the BOY" turns out to be what appears more like an "aging/graying/balding/paunchy lecher" - the net result is that "THE GIRL" seems to have taken up with somebody far less interesting and attractive than is she. It's all very confusing.
Also, some of our customers are not as finely chiseled as yourself, perhaps they can identify with some of the men who appear in GB scenes? Certainly, some customers have told me this.
Were I to be recruiting for a GB shoot, mebbe the thing I'd do is start out with a suitable BOY and find one who has a girl who'd be willing to appear with him.
If you want sex scenes of the beautiful people, there are plenty of sites that cater to that. Personally, I find the sex boring and mechanical, lacking emotion, passion or even devotion in many cases, but it cannot be denied that "Tab A" is being inserted into "Slot B".
Another issue: Girls masturbating is one thing - but for some reason, it just doesn't seem to be as attractive an activity when the guys do it... not sure why. It might be interesting to have JUST A GUY masturbating - with no girl in the scene - that actually might work better than the tag-team approach we've seen a couple of times.
That being said, our friend have made a site called gentlemanhandling.com, which is all about guys masturbating, and it's excellent!
As I understand it, the members of the AW site are, to a great extent, WOMEN - as opposed to it strictly MEN as with many such explicit sites. It may be that women might enjoy watching a guy get his yayas - as it is for men & women to watch women do the same.
Well - it's a thought.
Please note - these are no complaints in this note - just observations. Also - to enhance the appeal of GB shoots, the "IM" approach of a stationary camera setup with nobody else "on the set" might end up working better than the (supposedly artistic and allegedly more interesting) use of different camera angles and locations.
These are all ideas, they kind of feel like solutions, but I am not really sure what the problem is you're proposing these solutions for?
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Originally posted by Frans View PostReally? Most members seem to prefer G/G to B/G shoots. Why would you prefer not to see any G/G shoots?
Also, with a B/G shoot, as a guy, I can fantasize that it's me in the shoot as the guy. With a G/G shoot, I can't relate in any way.Last edited by Dekoda; 17 April 2013, 01:31 AM.
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Originally posted by Frans View PostAh, ok. So you're a big fan of more b/g shoots ?
So, don't let my preferences have any impact on what AW does, I am a nobody who likes reading the forums.
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I am more or less ok with more g/b scenes here, I just don't watch them. I only am a bit disappointed to find out that there are models not having done hardcore with other girls but they did have a hardcore scene with their bf.
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Hey Alex, We let models choose what they want to do in shoots - some have done both GG and GB shoots, others just prefer one or the other.
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It's like in real life....
Not all girls are bisexual therefore not all girls would be interested to have sex with both Girls and Boys.
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Originally posted by Fallcat View PostAny girl / boy videos coming soon? Nothing since 8/8 and no listing for one in "upcoming shoots".
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As I have put in another thread g-b only would trigger my interest if there is another girl included.
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AW does such a great service for men by repeatedly showing what it is that women actually enjoy - it would seem an equally worthy opportunity to do the same for women.[/QUOTE]
Hi notarysojac,
Sorry I'm a but late commenting on your post. I only just started reading it again after I left my last comments for this thread.
I like your take on things for this site, it's a really refreshing point of view!
I think considering Abby probably had many female members it would be good from time to time to put up something more male focused I'm sure many women would be interested and it's even in the interest in women, like you say education is a good thing. It would continue Abby winters female friendless
There seems to be a lot of people who do not like the g/ b stuff but that's fine each to their own, I think the chemistry and genuineness of the g/ b shoots is unique and amazing
Alex
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I have a question: would female members (of which site ever) like to see men/men interaction?
Is a kind of vice versa website imaginable? Boy/Boy shoots? Boy intimate moments?
Or is this then considered simply as gay porn? Which has a very different target group..
Hmm... well, I think so...
just thinking...
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Originally posted by alex_kAW View Post
Hi notarysojac,
Sorry I'm a but late commenting on your post. I only just started reading it again after I left my last comments for this thread.
I like your take on things for this site, it's a really refreshing point of view!
I think considering Abby probably had many female members it would be good from time to time to put up something more male focused I'm sure many women would be interested and it's even in the interest in women, like you say education is a good thing. It would continue Abby winters female friendless
There seems to be a lot of people who do not like the g/ b stuff but that's fine each to their own, I think the chemistry and genuineness of the g/ b shoots is unique and amazing
Alex
thanks - well said.
Love Sabrina
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Is there a b/g shoot for February as there is nothing yet shown In upcoming shoots section just wondering when we'll see an update for this
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Originally posted by samuel_271 View PostIs there a b/g shoot for February as there is nothing yet shown In upcoming shoots section just wondering when we'll see an update for this
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Originally posted by Lili View PostHi Samuel, we have a boy-girl shoot almost ready to be scheduled, its likely to appear in the upcoming list Monday next week.
Pretty avatar BTW!
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